In the modern world, families are still preserved in which violence when raising children is quite normal. At the same time, parents can love their children very much, but use violence for educational purposes. However, the use of physical strength in raising your child is a huge mistake.
There are a number of reasons that encourage parents to apply the physical impact to children. Когда дитя находится в совсем маленьком возрасте, оно познает окружающую действительность, а потому максимально подвижно. The child has a great desire to touch all objects, see all events, check everything on your own. There is no need to see absolutely nothing terrible in this.
The child does not want to deliberately take you away and to argue with you only because of stubbornness. The reason is banal – the natural need to obtain knowledge about the surrounding reality, as well as the endless movement.
There is a second case when parents apply the physical impact in relation to the child. This is due to their own complexes, errors or misunderstanding of what is happening. Punishment data should not be allowed categorically, because the child cannot be called guilty of your mistakes or ignorance of anything.
In addition, you cannot perceive the child from the point of view of property. Of course, the child is completely yours, but from birth he is a separate person and a full -fledged person. You will have to regret many times that the methods of education have made a child of a robot, thoughtlessly fulfilling all your instructions and teams.
The child’s psyche may well change and a rapist or pervert will grow from it. The child will begin to clearly believe that the truth always remains with a strong person, even if this is completely wrong. That is why think several times before bringing your hand over your child. Take yourself together and have a calm educational conversation with your baby.