As you know, the basics of the child’s behavior are laid in the family. A huge role in this process is played by imitation. The child copies the manner of behavior, communication, habits and even preferences in clothes from his parents.
The same thing happened to you. You, as a child, unconsciously copied your parents. And many of their habits, images of thinking remained in your subconscious. Remember how they related to money? Whether they knew how to handle money correctly? They transfigured or saved? Money was always present in your family in abundance or it was always missing? Money went to parents easily or hard work? The question “How to dispose of money?”Solved easily or caused fierce disputes?
How financial affairs in your family were decided, it was very much reflected in your perception of money and issues related to money. If your parents spent everything to a penny, living on the principle of “enjoy life while there is money”, then it is likely that the money is not delayed in your hands for a long time.
Another extreme is to infringe yourself in everything and save money “for a rainy day”. This is characteristic of those people whose parents experienced great shocks (wars, devastation, etc. D.). By the way, also a bad undertaking. If you live in anticipation of a “black day”, then do not hesitate – it will come. Moreover, before you expect. This is one of the principles of the universe – we attract to ourselves what we constantly think about. This principle is also called the law of self -hypnosis. Therefore, a positively -minded person is much easier to live – he does not even think about negative, he is tuned to get joy from life – and he receives it! If you are saving money, then put it off better for something pleasant, for the period when you become financially independent. And such a period will come then (the law of self -hypnosis) !
It is necessary to realize that the model of financial behavior was also imposed on you the way of life of your parents, loved ones and friends. In order to understand all this and consider in more detail, you need to do the same as in the case of verbal programming, recall models of parents’ behavior in financial matters, write out these models and think in what form they are present in your life. Informed means armed! If you know which installations you need to fight, then the probability of victory is very high!